Comments on: 13 Years http://www.kinkybluefairy.net/2007/11/18/13-years/ Living It Up As Best I Can. Fri, 21 Nov 2008 22:55:20 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.1 By: jingen http://www.kinkybluefairy.net/2007/11/18/13-years/#comment-22888 jingen Sun, 25 Nov 2007 15:59:47 +0000 http://www.kinkybluefairy.net/2007/11/18/13-years/#comment-22888 :*) I can feel all of you. :*) I can feel all of you.

]]> By: thisguy http://www.kinkybluefairy.net/2007/11/18/13-years/#comment-22776 thisguy Sat, 24 Nov 2007 20:53:13 +0000 http://www.kinkybluefairy.net/2007/11/18/13-years/#comment-22776 dont know if you remember my white spitz. she died 2 weeks before i left for uni overseas - as if she knew she'd be alone soon. not gonna tell you the whole story - but she was old and i'm glad that i was there. and that i got to bury her and say goodbye. i hope you get to be there and say your goodbye too - you'll see him again one day. :) dont know if you remember my white spitz. she died 2 weeks before i left for uni overseas - as if she knew she’d be alone soon. not gonna tell you the whole story - but she was old and i’m glad that i was there. and that i got to bury her and say goodbye. i hope you get to be there and say your goodbye too - you’ll see him again one day. :)

]]> By: Chrissy http://www.kinkybluefairy.net/2007/11/18/13-years/#comment-22582 Chrissy Fri, 23 Nov 2007 12:33:59 +0000 http://www.kinkybluefairy.net/2007/11/18/13-years/#comment-22582 Dear Joyce, I am terribly sorry to hear about your beloved furkid. My 7.5yr old cocker was diagnosed with breast cancer which is malignant and has recently undergone surgery. My entire family was devasted and it was impossible i felt for anyone else who hasn't been in any situation like this to understand. I had no one to turn to so after all that crying and feeling horribly down. I gathered more information and joined online support groups which have helped tremendously. I believe that dogs should not be put down unless they tell you they can no longer go on and all dog owners know what our furkids tell us. Please remain hopeful, we're going the holistic way with my sweetiepie which includes a change of diet(homecooked) chinese herbs,supplements etc..but taking into consideration the age of your boy it might be a little tricky. Still, everything is worth a go. Try to get hold of a vet or someone into holistic healing anything that's beyond the conventional methods of pills which i feel are drugs! massage therapy etc..it will help ease whatever pain he's feeling. She's still got the cancer in her and those tiny lumps waiting to grow but it's all under control. It's a lot of time and $ but i'd give anything. Try 4life transfer factor too, it does wonders. Do take care and enjoy precious time with your furkid. Don't give up hope. Dear Joyce,

I am terribly sorry to hear about your beloved furkid.

My 7.5yr old cocker was diagnosed with breast cancer which is malignant and has recently undergone surgery.

My entire family was devasted and it was impossible i felt for anyone else who hasn’t been in any situation like this to understand.

I had no one to turn to so after all that crying and feeling horribly down. I gathered more information and joined online support groups which have helped tremendously.

I believe that dogs should not be put down unless they tell you they can no longer go on and all dog owners know what our furkids tell us.

Please remain hopeful, we’re going the holistic way with my sweetiepie which includes a change of diet(homecooked) chinese herbs,supplements etc..but taking into consideration the age of your boy it might be a little tricky. Still, everything is worth a go. Try to get hold of a vet or someone into holistic healing anything that’s beyond the conventional methods of pills which i feel are drugs! massage therapy etc..it will help ease whatever pain he’s feeling. She’s still got the cancer in her and those tiny lumps waiting to grow but it’s all under control. It’s a lot of time and $ but i’d give anything.

Try 4life transfer factor too, it does wonders.

Do take care and enjoy precious time with your furkid. Don’t give up hope.

]]> By: anon http://www.kinkybluefairy.net/2007/11/18/13-years/#comment-22568 anon Fri, 23 Nov 2007 11:00:31 +0000 http://www.kinkybluefairy.net/2007/11/18/13-years/#comment-22568 hey. i kinda know how it feels. about nearly a year ago, my dog was put to sleep. he had been suffering for quite some time, but i refused to have him put down. then came the day, where he could no longer walk, couldnt even eat when fed, couldnt even drink, the water just kept trickling out of his mouth. he was letting out all these weird howls of pain, and all through it i sat with him, and then i realized that this was it. its better to put him out of his suffering, i took him to the vet. it didnt even take more than 10 mins. and they put him down. i still remember, that i watched him leave. i feel your pain. reading this post made me cry, it reminded me of my dog... but either ways, hang in there... my dog's life was lengthened when we took a chance with his heart worm disease... the doctor says the odds were against us, but we managed to save him for another 2 years... hope may yet ot be lost. hey. i kinda know how it feels. about nearly a year ago, my dog was put to sleep. he had been suffering for quite some time, but i refused to have him put down. then came the day, where he could no longer walk, couldnt even eat when fed, couldnt even drink, the water just kept trickling out of his mouth. he was letting out all these weird howls of pain, and all through it i sat with him, and then i realized that this was it. its better to put him out of his suffering, i took him to the vet. it didnt even take more than 10 mins. and they put him down. i still remember, that i watched him leave.

i feel your pain. reading this post made me cry, it reminded me of my dog… but either ways, hang in there… my dog’s life was lengthened when we took a chance with his heart worm disease… the doctor says the odds were against us, but we managed to save him for another 2 years… hope may yet ot be lost.

]]> By: Elsie http://www.kinkybluefairy.net/2007/11/18/13-years/#comment-22395 Elsie Thu, 22 Nov 2007 11:04:16 +0000 http://www.kinkybluefairy.net/2007/11/18/13-years/#comment-22395 I don't have a dog and I never have a pet but girl, I feel you. That's one reason I never dare to have a dog. I love em dogs but I can visualize my heart breaking when it's time to say goodbye. Be strong. Tell him that's he's been a good dog and family member. I don’t have a dog and I never have a pet but girl, I feel you. That’s one reason I never dare to have a dog. I love em dogs but I can visualize my heart breaking when it’s time to say goodbye. Be strong. Tell him that’s he’s been a good dog and family member.

]]> By: kricia http://www.kinkybluefairy.net/2007/11/18/13-years/#comment-22211 kricia Wed, 21 Nov 2007 13:33:20 +0000 http://www.kinkybluefairy.net/2007/11/18/13-years/#comment-22211 ur post reminds me of my Shih Tzu. She's turning 5 soon.. and i really cant imagine how am i gonna take it if she's gone. Sometimes, i wonder, how long will she be able to be here for me. im really scared to lose her one day. anyway, stay strong babe! and take care. ur post reminds me of my Shih Tzu. She’s turning 5 soon.. and i really cant imagine how am i gonna take it if she’s gone.

Sometimes, i wonder, how long will she be able to be here for me. im really scared to lose her one day.

anyway, stay strong babe! and take care.

]]> By: Dashken http://www.kinkybluefairy.net/2007/11/18/13-years/#comment-22176 Dashken Wed, 21 Nov 2007 07:13:42 +0000 http://www.kinkybluefairy.net/2007/11/18/13-years/#comment-22176 It's hard to let go but in the end, we have to. It's best to shorten the suffering. It's the best we can do for him/her too. Take care and.. take care... *hugs* It’s hard to let go but in the end, we have to. It’s best to shorten the suffering. It’s the best we can do for him/her too. Take care and.. take care… *hugs*

]]> By: huei http://www.kinkybluefairy.net/2007/11/18/13-years/#comment-22175 huei Wed, 21 Nov 2007 04:50:42 +0000 http://www.kinkybluefairy.net/2007/11/18/13-years/#comment-22175 i read all the comments, and it's hard not to cry for you i fear that day might come for my dog as well, she's 5 now, and time flies, but i've made a promise with her, whatever happens, wherever she goes, there's a secret place for us to meet. I will wait for her there if she ever gets lost, or go away... Be strong. Take cares. i read all the comments, and it’s hard not to cry for you

i fear that day might come for my dog as well, she’s 5 now, and time flies, but i’ve made a promise with her, whatever happens, wherever she goes, there’s a secret place for us to meet. I will wait for her there if she ever gets lost, or go away…

Be strong. Take cares.

]]> By: My Golf Sucks http://www.kinkybluefairy.net/2007/11/18/13-years/#comment-22174 My Golf Sucks Wed, 21 Nov 2007 04:11:11 +0000 http://www.kinkybluefairy.net/2007/11/18/13-years/#comment-22174 My beloved dog walked out of the family about 11-12 yrs back. I was in the US at that time, and she was about 12 or 13 yrs old. It was as if she knew her time was here, and she wanted to spare the family the anguish of seeing her go. I loved that dog (but sometimes bullied her as well), and she had a few close shaves with life and death, and it was I who hand fed her during her times of suffering. I still cry when I think of her. I miss her still after all this years. Crap, I'm crying right now. My beloved dog walked out of the family about 11-12 yrs back. I was in the US at that time, and she was about 12 or 13 yrs old. It was as if she knew her time was here, and she wanted to spare the family the anguish of seeing her go.

I loved that dog (but sometimes bullied her as well), and she had a few close shaves with life and death, and it was I who hand fed her during her times of suffering.

I still cry when I think of her. I miss her still after all this years. Crap, I’m crying right now.

]]> By: celine http://www.kinkybluefairy.net/2007/11/18/13-years/#comment-22173 celine Wed, 21 Nov 2007 03:37:50 +0000 http://www.kinkybluefairy.net/2007/11/18/13-years/#comment-22173 hey i dont know u. but i get how u feel. i had to put my dog to sleep after spending thousands on his treatment. he had skin cancer. in fact he inspired me to pursue a career in vet sc.. its not easy letting a best friend go. but do stay strong=) *hugs* hey i dont know u.
but i get how u feel.
i had to put my dog to sleep after spending thousands on his treatment.
he had skin cancer.
in fact he inspired me to pursue a career in vet sc..
its not easy letting a best friend go.
but do stay strong=)
*hugs*

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